hello there
if you have had a look at my profile you will see i am kind of new at this whole tribe thing but i am getting into it rapidly. i have been single for a quite a while and for a number of reasons. i really dont want to settle for something less. fear of being hurt is a big factor and then, i am not really into the irish pub scene..never really know who you are talking to if they are a little tipsy. i am looking for a guy who is interested in me and is not afraid to take a chance.... im a no nonsense, no drama, practical, sweet, a little crazy chatterbox... so hello to all!!
if you have had a look at my profile you will see i am kind of new at this whole tribe thing but i am getting into it rapidly. i have been single for a quite a while and for a number of reasons. i really dont want to settle for something less. fear of being hurt is a big factor and then, i am not really into the irish pub scene..never really know who you are talking to if they are a little tipsy. i am looking for a guy who is interested in me and is not afraid to take a chance.... im a no nonsense, no drama, practical, sweet, a little crazy chatterbox... so hello to all!!
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Fri, November 11, 2005 - 10:36 AMlalalalallalala, still prefer orkut :p, wanna show me around? [;)] -
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Wed, November 16, 2005 - 1:53 PMwell, there isnt really anything to the tribe network...the more you put into it the more you get out of it really. orkut is invitation only though right?
anyways, welcome....
stacy
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Tue, December 27, 2005 - 5:18 PMI just joined and the tribe seems pretty dead. But hi. Send me a letta if you get back here.
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Thu, December 29, 2005 - 5:14 AMhi there
it does seem pretty dead i know. it isnt something i spend all my time on...people seem to know each other and it already has some elements of clique-ness. that said, i have made friends with a few people and have had some interesting discussions of late. hope ur christmas was good
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Fri, December 30, 2005 - 3:41 PMThanks. Guess a lot of the tribes I've peeked into got some traffic after Xmas. Sorry I said this one was 'dead.' I'm brand new to tribe.
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Sat, December 31, 2005 - 2:56 PMhi.dont worry about it. for the first 2 months i found it dead and i 'visited' perhaps twice in that time. but recently when i had the time to actually sit in front of the computer and look at things..i started posting things, looking up tribes, making friends and browsing people. now...i am totally hooked.... just give it time. to be honest, i am a very independent, realistic person and the idea that i can make a lasting friendship with people i dont even know was something that brought out the skeptic in me previously. now....as i get more comfortable with myself, i am exploring more avenues of life and i am using online message boards for academic stuff...i have realised that power and value that online communities have and the openness involved with people joined due to the same interest...it is amazing.
hope you had a good christmas and you have a bright and happy 2006
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Sat, December 31, 2005 - 8:03 PMHooked, huh? I don't know if I'm hooked until I've been at it a few more weeks. Although its fun to look at people's profiles I'm not sure how well one can get to know other online? Ah'm skeptical. The person who has responded the most is the one who knew me already.
Anyway, thanks. I've signed up for a few writing tribes and maybe that will be an outlet.
Hey you are into alot of things. And hey you're in Ireland! That's really exciting. And kind of strange to think of you replying at 2:56 pm today from who knows how many thousands of miles away. Its 8:00 here and I'm laying out news stories for the newspaper I work for. When my boss gets back (unless she's fallen asleep--highly possible) we're going to a party put on by someone I barely know, but who is the sister of someone I used to scout books for 250 miles away all last year--so the networking thing works in real life, too!
What are you studying now that's really fascinating you? The idea of a young person really engaged in studying the world is kind of encouraging to me. Go to it--you have years ahead of you.
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Sun, January 1, 2006 - 8:25 AMhi there
i sometimes wonder that i wasnt born a cat....i have an insatiable curiousity.. but my curiosity is extended to my own species...and to how the world works. i am addicted to science, to politics and langauges..all linked by the ability that they all have to explain or order or express something. i am studying business and politics in university...though my passion is definitely science...i felt that i would do more good with some degree that has broad applicability to the world. being a scientist is great...but you are in a lab all the time and isolated really. i would become a sad little star if that was my life. instead...my mission is to be a flexible person, to increase my ability to communicate, to have fun doing it and to constantly have things to think about, marvel at or get angry about (feminism is my rant topic for 2006) .at the moment, my project is working in my college radio and newspaper and to also do drumming (which is my own creative outlet...it is reaping such rewards since i am finally thinking musically again and i am energised by it and inspired by what i can create with the sounds i make...)..
the only problem with me is that i seem to be such a universal soul that there are very few people sharing this little patch with me.... :-( but i dont have room for that since i have worlds to explore, things to conqueor and people to meet, to talk to, to learn from....
hope the party went ok..those random social events can sometimes be such a bore. hope the work got done...
take care
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Sun, January 1, 2006 - 10:31 AMAmazing. I used to know this quote I used in my undergrad thesis.. can't remember it... that it isn't the kind of knowledge we have that makes that knowledge scientific, rather that the one knowing has done the best they can to relate how they came by that knowledge... the point being that we use whatever tools we have to lay tracks down to the idea we want to convey. Thus art and poetry and alot of the 'prescientific' disciplines have that aim and can help communicate reality. (But whether an idea reflects reality is still the major concern of science, I think, explaining the behaviorist/reductionist Occam's razor impulse) Have you read Thomas Kuhn? Anyway, that's my magical thinking/social sciences take on the harder sciences.
Some scientists seemed really broad and connected with other areas of life--Einstein, Oppenheimer.
I'm lurking in WomanStrength hoping to get involved in a feminism discussion, but I'm going to be careful. I'm a fan of Dorothy Dinnerstein, Mary Daly, Adrienne Rich and somewhat also Germaine Greer. But all of those are kind of passed over these days. I guess what they have in common is that feminism is also about humanity and human experience, not limited to the affairs and experience and welfare of women but that society and humanity's position and fate is tied to the peculier question of women's equality... facing the gender-based arrangements (duo-opoly, mutual specialization, etc) gives insight into almost all other social questions in fact, through family down to environment, economics, religion.. and that fighting the inequal arrangements is vital for solving crises in those areas and can potentially deepen everyone's experience as a human being.
So in other words feminism can be a philosophy of liberation for men (and I don't mean chest-beating or getting in touch with one's masculinity), because it has currency (both as a paradigm and because it is integral with society)
What do you mean by your universal soul and the patch? Do you mean there aren't many Irish on tribe? Does your universality give you the ability to be on and of your own, or relate to the many as you would one-on-one?
I find that Gnosticism and the Kabbalah address these questions, maybe why they are considered esoteric. Many people, myself very much so, have no idea how to relate to others/many others.
The work didn't get done--I met alot of interesting former writers for the paper, though. And a pagan. Not boring, I guess maybe I didn't get the festivity, or when someone decided it was midnight I felt suddenly reminded I am single and not in a duo-opoly bond like so many other hu-mons are.
Welcome to 2006 while its still shiny!
I'll be sending you a friendship invite--hope we can talk about topics.
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Mon, January 2, 2006 - 3:36 AMhello hello
i havent read Thomas Kuhn..have heard of and i believe i have some of his work on my 'show off' bookshelf-the bookshelf that has all the books i would like to have read... in terms of being a universal soul...its simply that my upbringing and my personality make me a citizen of the world...i can empathise very easily with everyone to do with anything. i can have an opinion on something not only if i have read about the topic.. but its almost like if briefly explained the situation..i can place myself in it and construct what i would say about... my little patch could be the point of view i have, the 'personal' universe i inhabit (since i think everyone has their own individual reasons for being, etc etc...which make up their little universe...)
germaine greer i have found to be too petty and much to nit-picking about things. she had impact and importance in the past...but there has been a wide shift away from the more revolutionary, vocal and agressive writers since they advocated an almost complete reversal to something like a female world view organising the world. that is substituting one apparent opressor for another. just because we are woman does not mean we cant be just as power hungry, as racist, as biased towards women as men were when women we still the homemakers predominantly. i also find a lot of their preaching to be manipulative and subversive of reality as we know it. saying they want to be equal and yet people like Ang Sang Su Kyi arent dead simply because she is a woman not because she may or may not have feminist views. its great that she is causing such a stir and being a woman helps...but she isnt being treated with equality..where a man would have been quietly shot and she isnt. i think also that silly things like changing chairman to chair or chairperson is simply allowing bias into the meanings of our form of expression-language. people associate the word chairman to a title...to the duty that this person performs. having it split into chairwoman and chairman, or changing it...immediately biases people based on their language use.... if you are a woman who is used to saying chairman and you say it you are instantly a pariah to the grand movement. my main interest is the crisis that feminism seems to be having now... the fact that women like Johnson in Liberia and Merkel in Germany are getting into positions of power using a more subtle approach. they are doing it without a grand revolutionary movement to back them and they are doing it within the 'male-dominated world' that we live. Iranian women resorted to using the text that was interpreted such that it opressed them, to free them..The Koran. it is more that i am a cynical feminist rather than one that celebrates the agressive writings of people like Germaine Greer. writers like Doris Lessing are more feminist in my view..they wrote with conviction and passion about topics and didnt gender them but instead consciously tried to keep them unbiased and equal. i think gendering things undermines the work that women have done within male dominated professions. margret thatcher has been castigated as anti-feminist...however in her mind she saw the only way to compete was to be strong like men.. anyways...thats my rant for the day...this is supposed to be a single's tribe and i philosophising instead!!! -
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Mon, January 2, 2006 - 9:28 AMKuhn writes about paradigm shift in science and more or less gives the lie to the idea of progressively more satisfactory shifts. Paradigm shifts, he says, raise as many questions as they answer, and old ones fit as new as new ones. It only that the old ones are seen as obsolete and their fine details forgotten, while new ones tend to inspire new discussion of problems once thought solved and thus seem to 'spur' science on. I think he caused much more of stir in the social sciences than the hard sciences--no one wants to consider phloegiston or ethereality in chemistry anymore. I wrote in defense magical consciousness, which seems to be superstition. I brought in Carlos Castaneda, Charles Tart and Sue Blackmore, who all wrote about 'state-specific' or provisional knowledge or beliefs, i.e. belief-systems which last only as long as the individual practicioner need them to in order to utilize them in a desired way. Robert Anton Wilson is another example. The Christian viewpoint is that the beliefs we hold are personal, but when we die, we are judged against the 'truth' of one model. Thus, they often more or less dogmatically believe in an objective, righteous, model and are all too willing to become zealots... thus the antipathy between Christians and pagans.
And we all know who won that one. But for a long time 'western' anthropology (and history) held that same bias. In the 1970s, however, there began a shift to the postmodern view of cultural relativism... which actually demonstrates the pagan view that belief shapes reality (actually, it shapes the subjective experience of reality) and thus is a personal choice to be respected, not corrected.
Here in America, we're swinging back fast to fundamentalism and there's to be a showdown... probably the liberal view will go underground or seek refuge in the peripheral 'frontier' regions of the blue states (there is something about being on the edge that inspires multiculturalism--the Clatsop/Chinook tribe who lived here where I do before was one of the most adaptable, even seeking out strangers to adopt--it made the whole tribe better at trade network brokering, which was their very successful arena--no Chinook had to work or gather food if they didn't want to, and many had a separate plank house just to hold their belongings.
Greer isn't my favorite (too boring!), and you're right about her being petty... she called men 'subhumanly ugly'. But she also famously said: "I do think that women could make politics irrelevant. By a kind of spontaneous cooperative action, the like of which we have never seen; which is so far from people's ideas of state structure and vital social structure that seems to them like total anarchy. And what it really is, is very subtle forms of inter-relation which do not follow sort of hierachical patterns which is fundamentally patriarchal. The opposite to patriarchy is not matriarchy but fraternity. And I think it's women who are going to have to break this spiral of power and find the trick of cooperation."
In my opinion it isn't a simply that men dominate, its also a segregation into separate spheres. And here's where I think Dinnerstein is uniquely lucid: those 'complementary arrangements' give certain benefits (she expressly values her own marriage--to a biologist) few would give up. However, due to the insidious consequences of that choice, which perculates into our society and critically our treatment of the environment--that model of thinking is leading our species to ecocidal extinction. (The why of that I can't summarize here--Dinnerstein turns to Freudian psychology to explain why men tend to be ecocidal and why women look the other way about it)
And I think the argument that men might actually like the freedom equality offers is lost on most men, because men go through a life dynamic they don't appreciate until that spontaneous 'midlife crisis' or they actually adopt a more 'feminine' social role after retirement.
And Sang Su Kyi is symptomatic, not of simple inequality but of the mystique of a complementary division (I actually think her International fame is a factor--fascists secretly killed nuns in El Salvador who advocated liberation theology, but the point is still her symbolic mystique as a woman or her symbolic passivism as a woman). I don't have much truck for those who say 'kill all the men' or even feminists who condemn all men. I just don't think thats the true position of Greer, or even Mary Daly, who quit her post rather than admit men to her classes. Others, yes, but analytical, intellectual feminism as a general philosophy has much to offer men, whereas fascism is puerile antipathy to the other, thus feminism and fascism are intellectually opposite.
Back to work (I'm caught up, for now),
Vincent
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Sat, March 25, 2006 - 1:24 AMHi Stacy
Unfortunatly a relationship is out of the question as I just got married, however I'm sure we can be friends. Please visit and join my tribe community tribes.tribe.net/love4all
and we can keep in touch. There are some links there you will like.
Regards Michael Clayton
people.tribe.net/ascsingles